1. At First we have to ask both parties to write down their problems. 2. We have to do the Privacy Reserved first. 3. Always we have to discuss to both parties that none of their discussion will be open in public or any person related to both parties 4. Never allow the joint session at first meeting 5. Always we have to try that both the parties talk to us friendly.6. Also we have to talk the about relation with other party if there is any and we have to show our trust on that about partiality.